The person who receives the most favors is the one who knows how to return them. - Syrus, Publilius. ~ Granting favor is not an obligation.... never a responsibility. At least, repay them with acceptance [not denial], gratitude [not shame] and humility [not pride]. "'For his anger is but for a moment, and his favor is for a lifetime. Weeping may tarry for the night, but joy comes with the morning."' ~ PSALM 30:5